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My plea to the Universe: Show me that I’m not alone.
There is a soft, green, velvet couch in my living room. Last year, you would have found me there each morning with my hands to my heart, chanting a prayer. Every day I said the same thing through salty tears - please show me that I’m not...
The strange pull of what you really love.
“Let yourself be silently drawn by the strange pull of what you really love. It will not lead you astray.” -Rumi The 2014 World Cup changed our lives. Nico started watching with Matt, peering over his shoulder on the couch, asking about...
There is a kiss we want with our whole lives.
There is a kiss we want with our whole lives. -Rumi Dear sweet superheroes, It's been a long time and I've missed you. My life has felt so private over the last couple of years it's been hard to share in this space. But I've missed you...
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